Do not skip, do not cheat...go with the flow

Don’t we know all that feeling of being impatient with things, situations, relationships etc. and wanting to skip a step or two in the process?
Welcome to the club! This is the most annoying feeling I know right now. Perhaps for somebody who is not awakened or aware yet, this might be just a thing one has to go through. Which it is.
A break up and then being heart sore. A death and grieving. A project coming on to slow and and and.
BUT once you awakened and KNOW you can and should actually letting it go – much quicker. Soje, impatience!!!
One thinks: man I know, easy as one, two , three. It is what it is and let it go!
No! Sorry to disappoint you. Or at least so it is with me.
One has to go through all of the little tiny steps in between. From heart broken, to heart sore, to the feeling of being able to breath again.

This is with all in life. There is kind of a set plan. This is lives experiences.
You do not think so? Mmmhhh I have two more examples:
A cold comes three days, stays three days and goes three days. Even though one takes meds, for some odd reason this time span is not being shortened.
Another one: pregnancy. You fall pregnant, have to be pregnant for the nine month and then only give birth. Hahaha just imagine otherwise. No, I don’t!

This is what being human is about. To learn and to experience. Every single time to feel and follow the process of your lesson. Good or not so good.
No matter what it may be. These are the things one has to go through, to get to the other side. No short cuts. So do not beat yourself up about it.
Oh, in a way there is one. Mean shortcut. Do not get consumed by the emotions.
Meaning, should it be not such a good experience you in, do not allow the feelings to take over totally. So that it makes you physically sick at the end and you do not know which way to turn.
YES please feel it. Cry if you need to. Scream if you need to. Get angry if you need to.
Then balance it out with love and gentleness. Be good towards yourself, spoil yourself. Sit on the ground and suck up the wonderful energy coming from Mother Earth. Hug a tree and perhaps dig your fingers into the ground. Be outside and find gratitude. Feel good stuff.

But otherwise? Nope, no skipping, just go with the flow and enjoy the ride. Experience it.
Be in the now and in the moment. As by looking too far ahead you are not allowing the process to flow and cheating on what has to happen. You know, it will catch up later with you anyways.

Take it as it comes, enjoy it all. The good and the not so good. As with all, there is always something good hidden for us to learn. By being in the now, we might just have the best possible outcome on our plates and are able to make good choices.

So, I will now sit back and enjoy my rollercoaster ride. No skip, no short cuts, just good plain old – BE.
I am going to be a zombie when I want to be and be the sweet girl (of course I am always one) which I naturally am.

Love, light and lightness on this wonderful journey
Diana x